![]() I had taken a 2-week break from my ex but I initially wanted it to be till after my A levels but he didn’t agree with that. No texting, no calls, and no hooking up.” I prefer talking it out instead of having a break, because I believe communication is the most important when there are problems! But if one person is not receptive and does not want to open up, maybe a break would be good.”Īdvice for those considering a break: “Force radio silence and don’t talk to each other at all. I also spent a lot of time going to church. I also forced myself to try things I’d never imagined myself doing, like signing up for a pole dancing class. I also had a makeover - I got my first Brazilian wax, and got my lashes done. I cried a lot, but spent a lot of time video-calling family and friends, and going out with close friends. He laid out no terms, so I basically used this time to allow myself to grief for the relationship, and try to move on. In the case of me and my ex, he initiated the break and basically ghosted me for two weeks. Our definition of the break was that, “We are still a couple, but are taking time away from each other to see if we still want this relationship.” ![]() In the case of my boyfriend and I, we started having issues in our relationship and were fighting more, so at one point we just asked each other if we were still happy in this relationship. The break with my boyfriend lasted for one month. I took a break from my boyfriend earlier this year, and also took a break from my ex for two weeks before. “I am in a relationship, and I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years. “Time away from each other to re-evaluate the relationship.” ![]() I feel that both partners should learn how to effectively communicate their feelings and needs with each other.”Īdvice for those considering a break: “Use the break to reflect on the relationship and how to treat each other.”Ģ. Neither of us should be looking to find potential partners, or treat it as an excuse to cheat, because we are still in a relationship with each other. I would only consider taking a break if my partner doesn’t want to talk about our problems with me, or if they don’t consider my feelings for a long period of time, until it deteriorates my mental health and happiness in the relationship.Ī break is not a breakup. My break lasted around a month or so, but after the incident, I personally don’t believe that there should be a break in any relationship. Personally, I have taken a break in my relationship.įrom my own experience, a break is “pausing” the relationship to be away from your partner because either one or both parties needs to work on themselves before being able to be committed to each other properly. ![]() “I’m currently in a relationship, and we’ve been together for 3 years and 9 months. Hazirah and her current boyfriend Image courtesy of Hazirah “‘Pausing’ the relationship to be away from your partner.”
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